Perfectionism, Anxiety & Invisible Mandates
Hello ….how are you today?
😐 Do you tell yourself "I'm a perfectionist and feel anxious"?
😐 Do you feel like you have to get everything right to feel worthy?
😐 Is it hard to stop, even when you’re exhausted?
😐 Is there a little voice inside that says if it’s not perfect, it’s not good enough?
Luciano and I dive into a pattern that’s incredibly common—and incredibly harmful: perfectionism. That inner pressure we often disguise as responsibility or “doing our best,” but that in truth, pulls us away from who we really are.
🎙️ In this episode, we’re exploring:
✅Where perfectionism really comes from (family, culture, unspoken rules...).
✅Its hidden consequences: anxiety, overwhelm, rigidity, disconnection.
✅How it ties into the “good girl” role—and beyond.
📝 A therapeutic exercise to help you begin releasing that inner pressure.